Brand New Season 7 intake – via Zoom!
EFT Movie Club & Skills Lab
Led by Gulya Diyarova,
ICEEFT Certified EFT therapist and supervisor, EFT International School director
Couples in Crisis series
3rd November, 2-4pm (LONDON time – check your local time here)
From founders of EFT Cafe, Working with Attachment Injuries in EFT Stage 1 with EFT trainer Dr Kathryn Rheem and EFT therapist & supervisor Jennifer Olden
(Further sessions will be added later)
Live/unedited couple sessions, trainers/therapists are present and available for comments/Qs, in-session process analysis.
Work like a Pro along with wonderful EFT Trainers and learn tons from masters!
What will we be doing at EFT Movie Club & Skills Lab?
As EFT is first and foremost an Experiential model, from experience and feedback, we use “TELL, SHOW, DO” way of learning.
Hear from an incredible duo an EFT Trainer Kathryn Rheem, a therapist in the session, and a process analysis interviewer Jennifer Olden, co-founders of famous EFT Cafe, a highly experiential on-line EFT educational program:
“During movie night, we will talk about how to work with an injury in Stage One and achieve “mini-repairs” just to calm the system enough to eventually do AIRM in Stage Two. It’s such a common dilemma for EFT therapists: One partner wants resolution to any injury in Stage One, but the relationship doesn’t have emotional prerequisites and the balanced nervous systems to make deep repair. For many of us it would be a very difficult work and very challenging at times. In the demonstration video, we watch Kathryn create space for the pain from each individual and contain any potential arrows that threaten to unravel the process. Kathryn is the clear temporary secure attachment partner in this harrowing session because they are unable to be that for each other at this point. Kathryn helps each person engage with their own emotions to gain clarity instead of overwhelm–but the actual repair will come later. There will be live commentaries and explanation of interventions from the trainers present in the session.
Kathryn Rheem, Ed.D, LMFT, has been an ICEEFT Certified Trainer for over 10 years and trains Trainers in EFT. She is the co-founder of the EFT Cafe, an online program teaching therapists how to successfully practice EFT. She teaches EFT internationally and has published fourteen articles/chapters on various aspects of the model. She directs the Washington Baltimore Center, co-created with Sue Johnson Strong Bonds, Strong Couples for military personnel, and completed the first study of Withdrawer Re-engagement for her dissertation. Co-author of the book, “An Emotionally Focused Workbook for Relationship Loss.”
Jennifer Olden, LMFT, ICEEFT Certified EFT Supervisor extraordinaire. She is the co-founder of the EFT Cafe, along with Kathryn Rheem. She co-created the EFT Lab — an award-winning online series on EFT, co-founded the Sacramento Davis (CA) EFT Center, teaches classes on EFT throughout North America and Europe, and maintains a private practice. Jennifer is the author of the book, “Marathon in the Fog.”
We’ll watch together EFT Experts conducting their Live sessions:
- observing and noticing interventions,
- “unpacking” finer moments of their interaction with couples,
- pausing at frequent intervals to discuss and reflect,
- see how it resonates with us, where it “lands” within,
- what emotional ‘handles’ you notice and can use in the ‘here and now’ of the session,
- what would you have done differently if you had the couple in your consulting room,
- try interventions BEFORE an EFT trainer does,
- where would you go next?
- what it evokes inside and how we might respond in our “Self-of the-Therapist awareness.
Along the way in the ‘hear-and-now’ of the sessions:
- Safety First – In Escalation and constantly at every moment of the session
- Reactivity – Contain, Challenge and Control, learn how to put it to good use in the session
- Cycle – Recognising it in the Session, Tracking, Focusing, Validating, Reflecting, Summarising, Giving it back to the couple
- Emotions – Cues, Entry points into experience, Reflect, Validate, Deepen, Enact
- Enactments – different types of Enactments, 3Bs (Blocks/Balks and Bullets)
- Tango – Tango moves, differences Stage 1/Stage 2
Your comments, reflections, and your feedback will be most encouraged and welcome!
Dates & Times
Fridays (Note LONDON time)
3rd November, 2-4pm
Cost
£50 per each 2-hour session per participant
Payments in full Or separately for each session at least two days prior to the date
Place – from wherever you are via ZOOM
Your comments, reflections, and questions will be encouraged and most welcome!
Application Form (In Word format; fill in, save and then e-mail as attachment):
Who can participate?
The Course is open to therapists including students, who want to grasp, learn and master, or brush up on, the HOWs and WHYs of this great model in the company of like-minded and supportive fellow EFTers – who want to see master clinicians applying the model in various clinical situations.
- Those with no formal EFT training yet, but really EFT-inspired, who have done at least an Introductory EFT workshop, attended EFT Summer Schools, and intend to undertake EFT training.
Essential pre-requisite reading for this subgroup – “Creating Connections – the Practice of EFCT” and “Becoming an Emotionally Focused CouplesTherapist. Workbook” by Sue Johnson.
- Those who have started or completed formal ICEEFT EFT Training and want to access more videos of clinical examples of using EFT interventions,
- Experienced and/or Certified EFT therapists who want to boost and/or ‘polish’ the skills that took or are taking you to certification.
Limited to a group of 10 therapists when F2F – Unlimited when on Zoon – to ensure close attention to the material, comfortable Role Play, and safe Self-of the-Therapist reflections.
Commitment to the whole series is required
(when F2F) to preserve consistency and flow of learning the model.
Confidentiality
Every care will be taken to preserve the confidentiality of clients.
- Attending therapists are expected to belong to recognised professional bodies (eg, BACP, UKCP, COSRT, etc) and are bound by Code of Ethics to keep confidential any clients’ information in the videos.
- Therapists will be given notice to leave the room and not participate in a session if they think they may know the clients in videos.
- Participating therapists recognise and accept that no clients’ material can be shown outside these sessions and no copies can be made.
Disclaimer
We normally take a decision as to whether we have sufficient numbers to run an event six weeks prior to the event.
If you are having to travel to London, we suggest that you bear this in mind when making your travel and accommodation arrangements as we cannot be held liable for any costs incurred if we have to cancel an event.
Please take care of your personal safety and your belongings while at our training events. We are not responsible for any accident or personal injury that occurs during our training events or items that are lost or stolen during our courses and workshops.
EFT International School reserves the right to amend, change or cancel workshops or trainers at its own discretion due to circumstances beyond our control.
