Newcomers Programme

7th EFT International Summer School 2022 in London, via Zoom

‘It’s Never too Late’ – Love, Survival and Healing in Families and Relationships

Newcomers Cohort 1st-3rd (half-day) July, 10am-5pm (LONDON time)

Learn how to work with distressing and ‘difficult’ emotions in

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) approach!

(Go to EFT-Newcomers Registration Form)

Gulya Diyarova

1st-2nd July (10am-5pm) plus Bonus session 3rd July 1.30-3.30pm

Presentation: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in Action, Road Map to Emotional Healing: An outline of the theory and practice of EFT with Couples, Families & Individuals.

Bonus session: Where Does It Begin? Healing and Connection in IFS/IFIO & EFT

Gulya Diyarova , UK,  MSc, Cert. EFT therapist and supervisor, UKCP, Acc. COSRT, ICEEFT.

Sandra Taylor

2nd July, afternoon

Presentation: Masterclass: Getting Curious – What just happened there? In Session with EFT couples.

Sandra Taylor, London, UK, PhD, EFT supervisor and trainer, Acc. BACP, ICEEFT.

Laura Vowels

3rd July, morning session

Presentation: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in Action, Road Map to Emotional Healing: An outline of the theory and practice of EFT with Families.

Laura Vowels , Switzerland, Cert. EFT therapist and supervisor-in-training, ICEEFT.

Times (LONDON time): Days to run from 10am till 5pm on each day (till 12.30pm on the 3rd July) with Lunch and smaller breaks plus Bonus Session on the 3rd July 1.30-3.30pm.

Presentation (1st-2nd July and 3rd July morning) :
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in Action, Road Map to Emotional Healing: An outline of the theory and practice of Emotionally Focused Therapy with Couples and Individuals.

In this excellent introduction to the theory and practice of EFT by Gulya Diyarova, participants will get a clear sense of what the EFT model is and its well researched effectiveness as a therapeutic approach. Gulya will walk participants through the model’s stages and steps, showing how to focus on the attachment significance of a couple’s struggle and distress, to stay gently and steadily with partners’ vulnerable emotions and fears, and lead them into connectedness and a secure bond with each other.
Participants will engage in experiential exercises, skills and interventions practice, and discussion of clinical examples and video demonstrations of couple sessions.

  • Do your clients question if their partners are there for them?
  • Do they wonder about their partner’s accessibility?
  • Do they question the responsiveness of their partner when they need them?

This attachment-based, experiential, humanistic and systemic model offers a comprehensive theory of adult love, as well as a structured therapeutic “road map” to conflict reduction and the healing of damaged attachment bonds with the aim of creating safe emotional connection between partners.
The model recognises that relationship distress results from an actual, or perceived threat to the basic adult need for safety, security and closeness in intimate relationships. Couples in conflict tend to lose themselves in reactive emotions or withdraw into non-responsiveness and shutting down. Both behaviours become part of a negative cycle that leaves the partners hurt, alone and disconnected.
Using the power of emotion as a target and agent of change, EFT focuses on helping partners re-structure the emotional responses that maintain habitual negative interactional patterns. Once vulnerable emotions are owned and shared by each partner, trust  and meaningful connection can be re-established in a safe way through the  corrective emotional experience that occurs during the session.
A substantial body of research outlining the effectiveness of EFT now exists, with research studies finding that 70-75% of couples move from distress to recovery, and around 90% show significant improvement.
This Introductory training will include an exploration of:

  • The key concepts of Emotionally Focused Therapy
  • The language of emotions – core primary emotions and attachment needs
  • Understanding of Internal Working Models, Attachment Styles
  • Most common Negative Cycles of relationship distress
  • Stages and steps of the EFT model including the key change events in the process of therapy
  • EFT interventions on the basis of clinical material including video clips of live therapy sessions
  • How to work with the couple’s vulnerable emotions by tracking their underlying interactional pattern and helping them to flexibly manage their emotional experience

Participants will engage in experiential exercises, skills and interventions practice, and discussion of clinical examples and video demonstrations of couple sessions.

Masterclass (2nd July afternoon): Getting Curious – What just happened there? In Session with real couples.

Join Sandra Taylor for a vibrant and informative discussion as she shows some video clips of real couple sessions and dives into Whys and Hows of her work, pausing and inviting questions and reflections about what was done and why.
She has chosen a video related to their key area of interest to share with you. Sandra’s presentation is focused on working with LGBTQ+ people.

For All Participants – EFT-Newcomers and EFT-Trained Cohort

Bonus session (3rd July 1.30-3.30pm) – only £35

Presenter: Gulya Diyarova, London, UK, MSc Tavistock, Cert. EFT therapist and supervisor, UKCP reg., Acc. COSRT, BACP, ICEEFT

Presentation: Where Does It Begin? Healing and Connection in IFS/IFIO & EFT 

The Self is like an orchestra conductor who helps all the parts to function harmoniously as a symphony rather than a cacophony.’ – Dr Bessel van der Kolk

Both EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) by Dr S. Johnson (the 1980s) and IFS as in Internal Family Systems (Intimacy From Inside Out, IFIO for couples) by Dr R. Schwartz (early 1990s), arguably are the two of the fastest growing therapy approaches in the world. Both are powerful evidence-based experiential therapeutic models focusing on intrapsychic and interpersonal processes in individuals and couples, and allow for the relational and personal healing and growth. Briefly, IFS outlines that we each contain a central Self (Core Self, My Self, Spiritual Self, Soul) and many Protector parts (Managers and Firefighters).

It appears that these two modalities, EFT & IFS, present two perspectives on the most intriguing dilemma in psychotherapy – where does the change come from and begin with, what is primary? Is it internal resourcefulness, self-regulating ability which does the trick and lets one to find a good satisfying relationship – or is it developing of a secure attachment and co-regulation in your relationship first that then helps get rid of one’s own defences and reactivity?

Dr R. Schwartz suggests that in IFS ‘attachment theory is taken inside’, where client’s core undamaged Self becomes a ‘good attachment figure’ to client’s own parts. It feels that these two compelling models can be complementary for some clients or couples and there is a scope for integrating both approaches in a creative way in your clinical practice.

This brief seminar will give a concise introduction to key elements of IFS/IFIO framework, and will compare and contrast EFT and IFIO for couples therapy with relevant case examples.

Workshop objectives:

  1. Outline the IFS/IFIO protocol and framework for couples therapy.
  2. Who is in conflict and who is fighting?
  3. “From self-protection to safe connection” (L. Phillips) in IFIO
  4. EFT and IFIO: commonalities and differences.
  5. Where the connection comes from? Attachment and Self-leadership.

Resources and references:

Brief description – https://theweekenduniversity.com/internal-family-systems-therapy-an-introduction/

Becoming Whole (R. Schwartz) – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNtussFaYC0

Internal Family Systems Couple Therapy (Skills Manual), Toni Herbine-Blank, Martha Sweeze, 2021,

Internal Family Systems (Skills Training Manual, F. Anderson, M. Sweeze, R. Schwartz, 2017

 

Presenters

Gulya Diyarova

Gulya Diyarova, MSc Tavistock, UKCP, Accred. COSRT, MBACP, ICEEFT Certified EFT Therapist and Supervisor, director of EFT International School, director of EFT Clinic, London UK.

Gulya Diyarova is an ICEEFT Certified Emotionally Focused therapist and supervisor, and a psychosexual and relationship therapist. Her first career in Moscow was as a medical doctor, paediatrician and clinical neurologist. She moved to the UK in 1993 and later retrained in Systemic therapy, Psychodynamic approach, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Early Attachment and Psychopathology, and as a Psychosexual therapist. Gulya was instrumental in bringing EFT to the UK and has been organising EFT training in London since 2009 in conjunction with ICEEFT. She is a founding member of the British EFT Community (BEFT Center). She supervises EFT therapists, leads EFT workshops, CPD groups and Advanced Externship training (Option 1 towards EFT Certification), and has a private practice in London. She is Director of the EFT International School and EFT Clinic in Central London.

Laura Vowels

Laura Vowels, Switzerland, Cert. EFT therapist and supervisor-in-training, ICEEFT

Laura is an ICEEFT certified emotionally-focused therapist and works in private practice with individuals, couples, and families. After finishing her PhD in Psychology in March 2021, she relocated from the UK to Switzerland. She currently works as a junior lecturer/postdoctoral researcher at University of Lausanne, Switzerland whilst seeing her clients privately online. She has been teaching emotionally focused therapy for a couple of years now with the EFT school and also works for a sex therapy app Blueheart as a researcher and advisor.

Sandra Taylor

Sandra Taylor , London, UK, PhD, EFT supervisor and trainer, Acc. BACP, ICEEFT.

Sandra Taylor, PhD, is an EFT Trainer, Supervisor and Therapist based in Lancashire, England. She works in private practice online and her client work is predominantly with LGBTQ+ people, see: www.potential-development.co.uk
Sandra is a co-founder of the British EFT Centre www.beftcentre.org  and Joint Centre Head.
She trains therapists in Emotionally Focused Therapy in Britain with co-trainer Helene Igwebuike. She is supporting the development of the Polish EFT Community as well as being co-trainer on the first LGBTQ+ focused EFT Externship, London 2022.
​Some of Sandra’s intersecting identities are that she is a lesbian cis-gender white female, disabled and Catholic.
Sandra is a member of ICEEFT – International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and is an accredited member of BACP – the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. She previously worked as Director of Relationship Counselling in a national charity, and was a Senior Lecturer providing counsellor training at the University of Cumbria after more than 10 years as an Occupational Therapist in a range of mental health settings.
Sandra is a warm, knowledgeable and engaged trainer with a passion for helping people learn EFT.

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